friendster's blog post : girl best friend? (13th november 2008)

Often i felt i failed to understand people or it just me who over-do to understand them.the question is,do we need to understand people???

‘HabluminAllah wa Hablumminannas’

Islam taught us how significant to build relationship not with Allah solely,but also relationship with human.Well,e concept of Fardhu Kifayah explained everything.But what kind of relationship should we built on?hye n bye friends?soulmate friends?sehidup semati friends?or get along friends?my answer,whatever it goes…
Some are suit to be one of many kinds(relationship) or sometime few kinds at once.Sekarang aku dah mengarut.I guess what i want to write is about, Girl Best Friend .

I got one so called best friend,well she’s more like the one who really accept me the way i am ~annoying,big teaser,childish,emo n bla2(i guess u like me to confessd this.haha).We spent time studying together,studying for real.fyi,she’s my tutor for cm and im her study partner for ca.=).
I’ve tried to keep ourself to be seen by others but unfortunately we failed.so i guess we just be ourself.Why should i be afraid if we’re nothing more than besties?so we go on studying at public place.=p.But lately i guess others perceived it differently,they thought us as couple.S.E.N.G.A.L.At first i really don’t take it seriously but when it goes to bad(everyone teasing me here & there),hey!i need to voice out something.Explaining here n there that we are nothing more than besties gave nothing much different as they said a denial is a approval of public thought.so i guess biarlar apa orang nak cakap,it’s theirs(mouth) and words meant nothing for me because i know the truth.

One day, i called a good friend of mine bout cm but end up discussing something else,bout my bestie. She said it was to obvious that we practically being as a couple.S.E.N.G.A.L.honest!!!we met only for study purposes,except one day out with her(not a date).calls & sms?erm.of course she’s my bestie.she knows me well.and we know we aren’t meant more than that.sweet & flirty words tu meant nothing lor,it just words.So she said if we don’t want public to perceived as couple,we shouldnt act like one.I take her words at first,but iguess my way is better.be urself.as long as she’s my best friend and nothing more.good enough for me.=p~
person i like most hate me most.=)

So this is my words for those who have odd lame narrow thoughts of relationship,don’t define couple when they are together, lovers n bla3.In islam just have two words for boys/girls relationship , husband & wife or friends.~end

I’m feeling i’m so talking rubbish at e moment.=)