friendster's blog post : undesirable changes (23 june2008)

Life is full of choices,and those choices are to be chose wisely to ensure a desirable result.Somehow not all the choices can be made easily,sometimes unknown forces make u choose something that u hated the most.e end?undesirable changes.Ar-Ra’d : 11 Verily never will Allah change the condition of a people until they change it themselves (with their own souls).

Based on e verse above,regardless u want it or not,changes still have to be made.and those changes aren’t changes that will lead to destruction,but changes to improvement.Even though i said sometime changes couldn’t be made due to unknown forces,do not trust my words 100 percent.We put our hopes to change not on anyone(ur gf ,ur bf,me) nor anything else(ur materials thing),but on Allah s.w.t solely. Well,i try to get straight to the point,if e forces that hold us back from making a wise decision exist,how can we choose a wise decision ?.It depends. Example in fiqh through the concept of Al-Aqd there are 2 performer the buyer and seller and generally their decision hold by 2 principles of Aq’d ; principle of freedom and principle of consent.When the principle of consent or freedom is being violated due to enforcement, e result could be consider valid or invalid.But majority consider it as invalid due to principles violation.and later a correction or option will exist.So,in life if bad choices that u have made was without ur intention, try to change those as much as u can if it’s not to late,because others can’t control u,they just can advice u,guide u and sometimes destruct u.just be urself at e end of e day and change for good.InsyaAllah.=)