this is my first song.hah,:-)
sleep to succeed.
dreams,dreams,dreams.
dreams are made for a fool like me.
wish,wish,wish.
wish on everything that u can believe
dont let anyone or anything let it dissapear.
who knows everything you wish for can easily be so real.
live,live,live.
live your life with a great spirit.
find,find,find.
find everything it takes to keep you breathe.
dont let anyone or anything let it dissapear.
who knows everything you wish for can easily be so real.
there are moments of sadness & tragedy.
so irresistable but its part of our memories.
never hold on too long in pain.
coz u would never want to lose your perfect sane.
dont let anyone or anything let it dissapear.
who knows everything you wish for can easily be so real.
dont let anyone or anything let it fly away.
i dont think twice to say today is gonna be my day.
dont let anyone or anything let it burn in flame.
you know theres no one else to be blame. but yourself.
lalalala till the end~
:-)
Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Monday, December 28, 2009
Saturday, December 19, 2009
.break the ice.taste the indefinite beautiful glimpse.
i find it funny.
to know how i let myself.
attached to exaggerated emotion.
but time,
remind me something.
of things that ive been missing.
while i was busy degrading myself.
now i shall keep reminding myself.
how things should be taken with ease.
and the believe than i can be a better person no matter what i've done.
just make me smile.
without any other reason.
:-)
p/s : thats not funny.haish.
to know how i let myself.
attached to exaggerated emotion.
but time,
remind me something.
of things that ive been missing.
while i was busy degrading myself.
now i shall keep reminding myself.
how things should be taken with ease.
and the believe than i can be a better person no matter what i've done.
just make me smile.
without any other reason.
:-)
p/s : thats not funny.haish.
Saturday, December 12, 2009
.definite end.
when you wake up everday.
what would be your motivation?
its all about your goal i would say.
and from them,you can find an unstoppable excitement.
have you ever asked yourself.
what is the purpose of your life.
i know each of you tried to define each and specifics things.
but for me there is only one answer.
to achieve al-falah.
what is al-falah?
its a shame for uia's not to know this term.
al falah is absolute happiness in the world and the hereafter.
simple as it means,but perfect scope it conquers.
absolute happiness in hereafter?
to enter jannah.you might not realised how this mean much for you.
but if you visually try to illustrate what the jannah looks like.
you'll be amazed and suddenly you feel enthusiastic.
some illustration of how jannah looks like are in our divine book,
try and have a look.
absolute happiness in the world?
work & career,finances,recreation & free time, health & fitness, relationships, personal goals, and contribution to the larger community.these are some of the scopes.
most of you are clear what are these goals look like.just take an example of bill gates, and you will understand what i mean.
tips to achieve al-falah
1.you must make sure achieving al-falah is not just a fantasy or fairy tales,it is a dream that can be accomplished.
2.put it in you heart,not mind solely.
3.list specifics steps how to achieve those.
4.if the two goals are too complex, simplified it, by listing more specific goals under those broad goals.How specific?untill you clear what are those.
5.review it from time to time.
6.be steadfast(istiqamah) and make sure those two goals are reflecting each other.(not coincide).
p/s : this is a reminder for you, and for me.
what would be your motivation?
its all about your goal i would say.
and from them,you can find an unstoppable excitement.
have you ever asked yourself.
what is the purpose of your life.
i know each of you tried to define each and specifics things.
but for me there is only one answer.
to achieve al-falah.
what is al-falah?
its a shame for uia's not to know this term.
al falah is absolute happiness in the world and the hereafter.
simple as it means,but perfect scope it conquers.
absolute happiness in hereafter?
to enter jannah.you might not realised how this mean much for you.
but if you visually try to illustrate what the jannah looks like.
you'll be amazed and suddenly you feel enthusiastic.
some illustration of how jannah looks like are in our divine book,
try and have a look.
absolute happiness in the world?
work & career,finances,recreation & free time, health & fitness, relationships, personal goals, and contribution to the larger community.these are some of the scopes.
most of you are clear what are these goals look like.just take an example of bill gates, and you will understand what i mean.
tips to achieve al-falah
1.you must make sure achieving al-falah is not just a fantasy or fairy tales,it is a dream that can be accomplished.
2.put it in you heart,not mind solely.
3.list specifics steps how to achieve those.
4.if the two goals are too complex, simplified it, by listing more specific goals under those broad goals.How specific?untill you clear what are those.
5.review it from time to time.
6.be steadfast(istiqamah) and make sure those two goals are reflecting each other.(not coincide).
p/s : this is a reminder for you, and for me.
.twist things around.
i woke up for prayer.with sadness.
i feel there's a hole inside my heart.
i try to fill in with His words.I recite the divine book.
and it cure me a little.
i put myself to bed.
and i grab my self-help book.
i read few pages and i'm done.
sorry jack canfield.
i couldnt read yours in this situation.
later will do.
so,i had some early breakfast.
and i try to make my heart feel happy.
i failed.
and last.
i take my guitar.
and sit on the bench in front of my house.
facing the morning sun.
with pathetic lovely self-written song.
"i wish things are easier.
but still i see it getting harder.
i sleep and woke up with tears.
can the beautiful morning blue sky be my cure?
sadness moment is not a tragedy.
when a stranger said ,will u take it easy?.
i smile and say,hey you are right.
let's shine my day with thousand light
and I don't want to think to much.
but loneliness made me to do so.
go and find something to be your hush.
shouldnt be anyone you looking for.
what is it?your heart inquires.
it's the food for your soul.
try your best to get close to your Creator.
to not let yourself be someone cold."
and i end it with listening to the sounds of birds.
watching beautiful sun dawn.
looking at the not so blue sky and ask myself?
why am i playing guitar this early morning?
i smile and say.
pathetic.
and get myself on the bed again.
till i woke up around 12pm.
what a thing done to waste my day.
but i feel better
=)
p/s : thanks matured-face young stranger.
i feel there's a hole inside my heart.
i try to fill in with His words.I recite the divine book.
and it cure me a little.
i put myself to bed.
and i grab my self-help book.
i read few pages and i'm done.
sorry jack canfield.
i couldnt read yours in this situation.
later will do.
so,i had some early breakfast.
and i try to make my heart feel happy.
i failed.
and last.
i take my guitar.
and sit on the bench in front of my house.
facing the morning sun.
with pathetic lovely self-written song.
"i wish things are easier.
but still i see it getting harder.
i sleep and woke up with tears.
can the beautiful morning blue sky be my cure?
sadness moment is not a tragedy.
when a stranger said ,will u take it easy?.
i smile and say,hey you are right.
let's shine my day with thousand light
and I don't want to think to much.
but loneliness made me to do so.
go and find something to be your hush.
shouldnt be anyone you looking for.
what is it?your heart inquires.
it's the food for your soul.
try your best to get close to your Creator.
to not let yourself be someone cold."
and i end it with listening to the sounds of birds.
watching beautiful sun dawn.
looking at the not so blue sky and ask myself?
why am i playing guitar this early morning?
i smile and say.
pathetic.
and get myself on the bed again.
till i woke up around 12pm.
what a thing done to waste my day.
but i feel better
=)
p/s : thanks matured-face young stranger.
Tuesday, December 8, 2009
.taking two steps back to run faster.
if a runner want to win the race.
he will run in his highest pace.
he doesn't has anything to worry about.
the end is clear.the distance is known.
he just has to pull out the best from himself.
and Lord will do the rest.
isn't that so simple?
but why and why.
i see myself,you,and others keep failing.
each seconds and every minutes.
you give up.you stop half way.
you leave the track and goes somewhere else.
and without direction.your heart dies.
isnt that hurtful?
isnt that a pain u tried best to avoid?
what a shame.
i recall myself to Lord.
every minute i could.
the power of it seems powerful.
it let me know myself better.
we called it muhasabah.
when someone asked me.
how to calm someone in failures.
i don't have the answer.
i could say thousands sweet words.
but that's is just not true.
the one who have the answer.
is the one who in failures and Him.
so i answered.
Allah swt knows what it takes to grant His servants .the criteria.
sins.kindness.good deeds.bad deeds.your true akhlak and so.
sometimes it could be a test or punishment.
Allah knows His servants who can bear the failures.
because He just loves to see them rise up.
with smiles and confidence.
isn't that beautiful?.
so why must you grieve on something that turn to be lovely.
i've gone through few circumstances.
and it has build me to be stronger than i thought.
dear friends,
the moment of success will come.
you just have to keep believing.
in YOURSELF.
in HIM.
never ever try to give up.
time will show you.
this is the lovely truth.
=)
he will run in his highest pace.
he doesn't has anything to worry about.
the end is clear.the distance is known.
he just has to pull out the best from himself.
and Lord will do the rest.
isn't that so simple?
but why and why.
i see myself,you,and others keep failing.
each seconds and every minutes.
you give up.you stop half way.
you leave the track and goes somewhere else.
and without direction.your heart dies.
isnt that hurtful?
isnt that a pain u tried best to avoid?
what a shame.
i recall myself to Lord.
every minute i could.
the power of it seems powerful.
it let me know myself better.
we called it muhasabah.
when someone asked me.
how to calm someone in failures.
i don't have the answer.
i could say thousands sweet words.
but that's is just not true.
the one who have the answer.
is the one who in failures and Him.
so i answered.
Allah swt knows what it takes to grant His servants .the criteria.
sins.kindness.good deeds.bad deeds.your true akhlak and so.
sometimes it could be a test or punishment.
Allah knows His servants who can bear the failures.
because He just loves to see them rise up.
with smiles and confidence.
isn't that beautiful?.
so why must you grieve on something that turn to be lovely.
i've gone through few circumstances.
and it has build me to be stronger than i thought.
dear friends,
the moment of success will come.
you just have to keep believing.
in YOURSELF.
in HIM.
never ever try to give up.
time will show you.
this is the lovely truth.
=)
.beautiful dreams end in this lovely world.
power of Lord is tremendous.
be it day and night.it surprises you always.
when things get hard,He makes it easy.
when things are easy,He makes it hard.
He larger your distances.you takes one step closer.
you might know it was a game,you strive a little bit harder.
but still the distance remain,you change your plan.
little by little,you learn how to play the game.
shakespeare says we are actors on this world play.
i would say, don't believe the words of non believer too much.
i like the words ' we are slave' as it sounds better.
it creates the humbleness and remain our purposes.
when things turn great.its the peak time to be grateful.
when things turn bad.you start to be repentful.
what are beautiful religion i have.
in every situation, i'm getting closer to my Creator.
=)
be it day and night.it surprises you always.
when things get hard,He makes it easy.
when things are easy,He makes it hard.
He larger your distances.you takes one step closer.
you might know it was a game,you strive a little bit harder.
but still the distance remain,you change your plan.
little by little,you learn how to play the game.
shakespeare says we are actors on this world play.
i would say, don't believe the words of non believer too much.
i like the words ' we are slave' as it sounds better.
it creates the humbleness and remain our purposes.
when things turn great.its the peak time to be grateful.
when things turn bad.you start to be repentful.
what are beautiful religion i have.
in every situation, i'm getting closer to my Creator.
=)
.hopes or dreams.
among those.
i choose to dream.
as it requires no definite result.
some turn into reality.
some just left as fantasy.
but hopes work differently.
if u fail,disappointment.
if u succeed,encouragement.
so why would i chose to believe in hopes?.
not a good idea.
Hey Jude don't make it bad
Take a sad song and make it better
Remember to let her into your heart
Then you can start to make it better
Hey Jude don't be afraid
You were made to go out and get her
The minute you let her under your skin
Then you begin to make it better
And any time you feel the pain, Hey Jude, refrain
Don't carry the world upon your shoulders
For well you know that it's a fool who plays it cool
By making his world a little colder
Hey Jude don't let me down
You have found her now go and get her
Remember to let her into your heart
Then you can start to make it better
So let it out and let it in
Hey Jude begin
You're waiting for someone to perform with
And don't you know that it's just you
Hey Jude you'll do
The movement you need is on your shoulder
Hey Jude don't make it bad
Take a sad song and make it better
Remember to let her under your skin
Then you'll begin to make it better
p/s : nothing to lose.
i choose to dream.
as it requires no definite result.
some turn into reality.
some just left as fantasy.
but hopes work differently.
if u fail,disappointment.
if u succeed,encouragement.
so why would i chose to believe in hopes?.
not a good idea.
Hey Jude don't make it bad
Take a sad song and make it better
Remember to let her into your heart
Then you can start to make it better
Hey Jude don't be afraid
You were made to go out and get her
The minute you let her under your skin
Then you begin to make it better
And any time you feel the pain, Hey Jude, refrain
Don't carry the world upon your shoulders
For well you know that it's a fool who plays it cool
By making his world a little colder
Hey Jude don't let me down
You have found her now go and get her
Remember to let her into your heart
Then you can start to make it better
So let it out and let it in
Hey Jude begin
You're waiting for someone to perform with
And don't you know that it's just you
Hey Jude you'll do
The movement you need is on your shoulder
Hey Jude don't make it bad
Take a sad song and make it better
Remember to let her under your skin
Then you'll begin to make it better
p/s : nothing to lose.
Saturday, December 5, 2009
.done.but not an end.
i dreamed about something..
and i make it become true.
i said something.
i always force and make sure myself to do.
bad things.tried best to avoid.
good things.often get or left ignored.
bad choices.your fault.
good choices.its your Lord.
you shouldn't complained if you already chose something.
if you can accept it,stay.
if not,just run away.
why should you do something crazy.
intuition work best with unexpected.
you've replied my messagges and its not easy.
i just don't want to know anything till i'm fully prepared.
i woke up with one question.
yes or no.what and so.
it's your heart and soul.
that need to be purified.
before asking someone else to do so.
its funny how life goes.
harder than it looks.but easy as it means.
it depends on how you feel.
enjoy it as long as you can.
people come and goes.
some died and some just left.
i don't want to meet you again.
i just said something that you already have.
i have my own standard for everything.
name it.sports.life.thought.material stuff.
but now i realise,theres 2 undefined standard i couldnt set.
ibadh & love.
i said too much.i've done too far.
now you're gone ,and it's not easy.
but times help me as it goes by.
now there is no one i love left in my memory.
=)
and i make it become true.
i said something.
i always force and make sure myself to do.
bad things.tried best to avoid.
good things.often get or left ignored.
bad choices.your fault.
good choices.its your Lord.
you shouldn't complained if you already chose something.
if you can accept it,stay.
if not,just run away.
why should you do something crazy.
intuition work best with unexpected.
you've replied my messagges and its not easy.
i just don't want to know anything till i'm fully prepared.
i woke up with one question.
yes or no.what and so.
it's your heart and soul.
that need to be purified.
before asking someone else to do so.
its funny how life goes.
harder than it looks.but easy as it means.
it depends on how you feel.
enjoy it as long as you can.
people come and goes.
some died and some just left.
i don't want to meet you again.
i just said something that you already have.
i have my own standard for everything.
name it.sports.life.thought.material stuff.
but now i realise,theres 2 undefined standard i couldnt set.
ibadh & love.
i said too much.i've done too far.
now you're gone ,and it's not easy.
but times help me as it goes by.
now there is no one i love left in my memory.
=)
.the lemonade gist.
spend seconds to think about this.
Dr. Daniel Amen's age principle : 18/40/60.
18 : age where you care most what people around you think
40 : age where you don't care what people around you think.
60 : there is no one to think about you anymore.
funny.and that's a common fact=)
sit down and relaxed.take a deep breathe and think about yourself.
1st question : where are you right now?
*what your capabilities are?what have you done?are you satisfied with yourself?physically and mentally? & etc.
2nd question : where are you going?
*what you want to be in the future?how it looks like specifically?your financial capability?your wife?your contribution to community?your akhlak?your academic?your leisure time? & etc.
if only you can answer above ques with comprehensive details,you will success.don't worry how to get what you want,the how will be decided by Him and supported by your effort.
this the lemonade gist.it taste extremely sour,but thats what you need.
have a nice day.=)
Dr. Daniel Amen's age principle : 18/40/60.
18 : age where you care most what people around you think
40 : age where you don't care what people around you think.
60 : there is no one to think about you anymore.
funny.and that's a common fact=)
sit down and relaxed.take a deep breathe and think about yourself.
1st question : where are you right now?
*what your capabilities are?what have you done?are you satisfied with yourself?physically and mentally? & etc.
2nd question : where are you going?
*what you want to be in the future?how it looks like specifically?your financial capability?your wife?your contribution to community?your akhlak?your academic?your leisure time? & etc.
if only you can answer above ques with comprehensive details,you will success.don't worry how to get what you want,the how will be decided by Him and supported by your effort.
this the lemonade gist.it taste extremely sour,but thats what you need.
have a nice day.=)
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
.between the truth and lies.
there is a secret.hidden.deep under reality.
buried.sealed.wrapped.
but the world works with magic.
beautiful it may seems,but it turns other to be fool most of the time.
see with minds.not eyes.legs.hands.or body.
dreams with your heart.not thoughts.lust.or money.
i can't leave myself hanging without a purpose.
simply say,being indecisive is torturous.
invisible hand is the sunnatullah .
in every fields,people made various assumptions.
the meaning is never that near,neither too far.
understanding your religion.that is your on-going mission.
it hurts.
when it stand between truth and lies.
muhasabah.
=)
buried.sealed.wrapped.
but the world works with magic.
beautiful it may seems,but it turns other to be fool most of the time.
see with minds.not eyes.legs.hands.or body.
dreams with your heart.not thoughts.lust.or money.
i can't leave myself hanging without a purpose.
simply say,being indecisive is torturous.
invisible hand is the sunnatullah .
in every fields,people made various assumptions.
the meaning is never that near,neither too far.
understanding your religion.that is your on-going mission.
it hurts.
when it stand between truth and lies.
muhasabah.
=)
Monday, November 23, 2009
.when you thought you are ordinary.
you are just ordinary.
when people thought you are much different.
when you meet great people.
you feel great,even you yet to be one.
YTAR camps was awesome.
it burst my spirit high enough.
kak zaleha,e first batch of tunku scholars just got the king's scholarship(agong's scholarship) to continue master at the Ivy's league university at UK.
kak adibah,will be doing Phd at the year of 23?.damn young.she's too good and able to skipped her master.
elson are already master's student at upm at the age of 23.
and many2 great stories.
it really make me feel that.
i can be like them.
one day.
soon the dreams will come true.
just stay on the right path.
be calm.
amin.
=)
when people thought you are much different.
when you meet great people.
you feel great,even you yet to be one.
YTAR camps was awesome.
it burst my spirit high enough.
kak zaleha,e first batch of tunku scholars just got the king's scholarship(agong's scholarship) to continue master at the Ivy's league university at UK.
kak adibah,will be doing Phd at the year of 23?.damn young.she's too good and able to skipped her master.
elson are already master's student at upm at the age of 23.
and many2 great stories.
it really make me feel that.
i can be like them.
one day.
soon the dreams will come true.
just stay on the right path.
be calm.
amin.
=)
Thursday, November 19, 2009
.reading is exciting.
it's exciting to read his books.
baru satu je.outliers.beli before raya.
yesterday just bought the latest one.what the dog saw.
beli lagi.last week pn beli jugak.x baca lagi.
tapi malcolm's writing are fascinating and best giler.
serious.
the writer name : malcolm gladwell
at first,agak boring baca outliers.but as the chapters goes.
exciting.a great finding.deep beneath what typical writer would see.
try to check some of his stuff : http://www.gladwell.com
if dah habis baca 'apa yang anjing sudah lihat'.
baru beli tipping point and blink.
insyaAllah.
=)
baru satu je.outliers.beli before raya.
yesterday just bought the latest one.what the dog saw.
beli lagi.last week pn beli jugak.x baca lagi.
tapi malcolm's writing are fascinating and best giler.
serious.
the writer name : malcolm gladwell
at first,agak boring baca outliers.but as the chapters goes.
exciting.a great finding.deep beneath what typical writer would see.
try to check some of his stuff : http://www.gladwell.com
if dah habis baca 'apa yang anjing sudah lihat'.
baru beli tipping point and blink.
insyaAllah.
=)
.welcoming you to 'wasting-your-time' blog.
salam.
this guy is a friend of yours.
who are trying to revive his old blog.
again?.hehe.
come and read.
critize it at maximum pace.
thank you.
datang lagi.
=)
this guy is a friend of yours.
who are trying to revive his old blog.
again?.hehe.
come and read.
critize it at maximum pace.
thank you.
datang lagi.
=)
friendster's blog post : girl best friend? (13th november 2008)
Often i felt i failed to understand people or it just me who over-do to understand them.the question is,do we need to understand people???
‘HabluminAllah wa Hablumminannas’
Islam taught us how significant to build relationship not with Allah solely,but also relationship with human.Well,e concept of Fardhu Kifayah explained everything.But what kind of relationship should we built on?hye n bye friends?soulmate friends?sehidup semati friends?or get along friends?my answer,whatever it goes…
Some are suit to be one of many kinds(relationship) or sometime few kinds at once.Sekarang aku dah mengarut.I guess what i want to write is about, Girl Best Friend .
I got one so called best friend,well she’s more like the one who really accept me the way i am ~annoying,big teaser,childish,emo n bla2(i guess u like me to confessd this.haha).We spent time studying together,studying for real.fyi,she’s my tutor for cm and im her study partner for ca.=).
I’ve tried to keep ourself to be seen by others but unfortunately we failed.so i guess we just be ourself.Why should i be afraid if we’re nothing more than besties?so we go on studying at public place.=p.But lately i guess others perceived it differently,they thought us as couple.S.E.N.G.A.L.At first i really don’t take it seriously but when it goes to bad(everyone teasing me here & there),hey!i need to voice out something.Explaining here n there that we are nothing more than besties gave nothing much different as they said a denial is a approval of public thought.so i guess biarlar apa orang nak cakap,it’s theirs(mouth) and words meant nothing for me because i know the truth.
One day, i called a good friend of mine bout cm but end up discussing something else,bout my bestie. She said it was to obvious that we practically being as a couple.S.E.N.G.A.L.honest!!!we met only for study purposes,except one day out with her(not a date).calls & sms?erm.of course she’s my bestie.she knows me well.and we know we aren’t meant more than that.sweet & flirty words tu meant nothing lor,it just words.So she said if we don’t want public to perceived as couple,we shouldnt act like one.I take her words at first,but iguess my way is better.be urself.as long as she’s my best friend and nothing more.good enough for me.=p~
person i like most hate me most.=)
So this is my words for those who have odd lame narrow thoughts of relationship,don’t define couple when they are together, lovers n bla3.In islam just have two words for boys/girls relationship , husband & wife or friends.~end
I’m feeling i’m so talking rubbish at e moment.=)
‘HabluminAllah wa Hablumminannas’
Islam taught us how significant to build relationship not with Allah solely,but also relationship with human.Well,e concept of Fardhu Kifayah explained everything.But what kind of relationship should we built on?hye n bye friends?soulmate friends?sehidup semati friends?or get along friends?my answer,whatever it goes…
Some are suit to be one of many kinds(relationship) or sometime few kinds at once.Sekarang aku dah mengarut.I guess what i want to write is about, Girl Best Friend .
I got one so called best friend,well she’s more like the one who really accept me the way i am ~annoying,big teaser,childish,emo n bla2(i guess u like me to confessd this.haha).We spent time studying together,studying for real.fyi,she’s my tutor for cm and im her study partner for ca.=).
I’ve tried to keep ourself to be seen by others but unfortunately we failed.so i guess we just be ourself.Why should i be afraid if we’re nothing more than besties?so we go on studying at public place.=p.But lately i guess others perceived it differently,they thought us as couple.S.E.N.G.A.L.At first i really don’t take it seriously but when it goes to bad(everyone teasing me here & there),hey!i need to voice out something.Explaining here n there that we are nothing more than besties gave nothing much different as they said a denial is a approval of public thought.so i guess biarlar apa orang nak cakap,it’s theirs(mouth) and words meant nothing for me because i know the truth.
One day, i called a good friend of mine bout cm but end up discussing something else,bout my bestie. She said it was to obvious that we practically being as a couple.S.E.N.G.A.L.honest!!!we met only for study purposes,except one day out with her(not a date).calls & sms?erm.of course she’s my bestie.she knows me well.and we know we aren’t meant more than that.sweet & flirty words tu meant nothing lor,it just words.So she said if we don’t want public to perceived as couple,we shouldnt act like one.I take her words at first,but iguess my way is better.be urself.as long as she’s my best friend and nothing more.good enough for me.=p~
person i like most hate me most.=)
So this is my words for those who have odd lame narrow thoughts of relationship,don’t define couple when they are together, lovers n bla3.In islam just have two words for boys/girls relationship , husband & wife or friends.~end
I’m feeling i’m so talking rubbish at e moment.=)
friendster's blog post : words from others?.how would you react & response ?(15th nov 2008)
Particularly West acknowledged the term awfulizing (i’ve found it in my reading ) which means an idea that any relaxation in standards or vigilance is the first step toward failure,degradation and the collapse of civilization.I was attracted to the term~awfulizing but somehow not sure what i’ll be writing on.But perhaps, i’ll try to reflect the term in Islamic view.
Since you were born , a set of manifestation of guideline how ur future life should be would mainly set up or bold by ur parents. After sometime, if your behaviours and actions reflecting the guidelines, your parents would say ‘Thank God,we have followed the right way’.But if the result of your behaviours and actions seems to be far from what they have expected, your parents would be in situation so called dissapointment.Hey,don’t dissapoint your parents too often.=)
What does matter is how we act when we’ve been told by our parents what to do. Vary in ages ,response from us also differ.I’ve noticed that my writing seems to be too formal like this post meant for Parenting CCAC subjects,so let me make it general.People,when refuse after were told what to do by others will resulted in two responses ,
1st-overt -straightly im not going to do it or 2nd-passive+aggressive- i forgot.
these two responses surely lead to common frustration for those who gave the order/instruction.But why too often we refuse too hear others advice,opinion,thoughts,orders & instruction by directly not too follow them without at first place comparing our own with them.Stubborn?Ego?Status?Riya’?.whatever the answers is,we still are not easily to perceived and instructed to other words.Some might felt he himself already posses enough ability to make his own decision/opinion without expecting words form others, or even if he still want to listen others words , he always failed to received a helpful thoughts to be worked on.Or,even other words are obviously better than yours, there’s a sceptical minded that won’t let you accept the words as a total.and there are other explanation for this circumstances depending what variables you used on but mostly it would be your behaviour itself.
So come the conclusion, what merely is inside your mind when people start talking ?, what reactions or responses you would give? reactions may vary between different people as when you with your lecturer, you might taking each word came from his/her mouth seriously(especially bila nak xm) , but with your friends you might considering listening or not to because merely they will talk bout the same thing over and over again and it goes with different people.another question, do you give the right reactions or responses to the words?.perhaps you did but MOSTLY you aren’t.
It was narrated on the authority of Abu Najih al-Irbad bin Sariyah, radiyallahu ‘anhu, who said:
The Messenger of Allah, sallallahu ‘alayhi wasallam, delivered an admonition that made our hearts fearful and our eyes tearful. We said, “O Messenger of Allah, it is as if this were a farewell sermon, so advise us.” He said, “I enjoin you to have Taqwa of Allah and that you listen and obey, even if a slave is made a ruler over you. He among you who lives long enough will see many differences. So for you is to observe my Sunnah and the Sunnah of the rightly-principled and rightly-guided successors, holding on to them with your molar teeth. Beware of newly-introduced matters, for every innovation (bid’ah) is an error.”
[Abu Dawud & Al-Tirmidhi, who says it is an authentic hadith]
Based on above hadith, what it has to do with this post?look at the bold word.’listen’ an ‘obey’ even if a slave is made ruler above you.My thought is,regardless who are you listening too,take every words seriously eventhough it may or may not beneficial,you can ignore those unbeneficial words after u analyse it.Don’t take words too easily,as Qur’an & Hadith effectively disseminate by words ,but don’t take it too exremely if the words seems to be words that can make you astray from Allah s.w.t.He Knows Best.amiin.
p/s:i noticed my post seems to be inconsistent with the post title,i’ll try to make sure i’ll write more clearly in the next post.saya semakin mengarut hari demi hari.=(
Since you were born , a set of manifestation of guideline how ur future life should be would mainly set up or bold by ur parents. After sometime, if your behaviours and actions reflecting the guidelines, your parents would say ‘Thank God,we have followed the right way’.But if the result of your behaviours and actions seems to be far from what they have expected, your parents would be in situation so called dissapointment.Hey,don’t dissapoint your parents too often.=)
What does matter is how we act when we’ve been told by our parents what to do. Vary in ages ,response from us also differ.I’ve noticed that my writing seems to be too formal like this post meant for Parenting CCAC subjects,so let me make it general.People,when refuse after were told what to do by others will resulted in two responses ,
1st-overt -straightly im not going to do it or 2nd-passive+aggressive- i forgot.
these two responses surely lead to common frustration for those who gave the order/instruction.But why too often we refuse too hear others advice,opinion,thoughts,orders & instruction by directly not too follow them without at first place comparing our own with them.Stubborn?Ego?Status?Riya’?.whatever the answers is,we still are not easily to perceived and instructed to other words.Some might felt he himself already posses enough ability to make his own decision/opinion without expecting words form others, or even if he still want to listen others words , he always failed to received a helpful thoughts to be worked on.Or,even other words are obviously better than yours, there’s a sceptical minded that won’t let you accept the words as a total.and there are other explanation for this circumstances depending what variables you used on but mostly it would be your behaviour itself.
So come the conclusion, what merely is inside your mind when people start talking ?, what reactions or responses you would give? reactions may vary between different people as when you with your lecturer, you might taking each word came from his/her mouth seriously(especially bila nak xm) , but with your friends you might considering listening or not to because merely they will talk bout the same thing over and over again and it goes with different people.another question, do you give the right reactions or responses to the words?.perhaps you did but MOSTLY you aren’t.
It was narrated on the authority of Abu Najih al-Irbad bin Sariyah, radiyallahu ‘anhu, who said:
The Messenger of Allah, sallallahu ‘alayhi wasallam, delivered an admonition that made our hearts fearful and our eyes tearful. We said, “O Messenger of Allah, it is as if this were a farewell sermon, so advise us.” He said, “I enjoin you to have Taqwa of Allah and that you listen and obey, even if a slave is made a ruler over you. He among you who lives long enough will see many differences. So for you is to observe my Sunnah and the Sunnah of the rightly-principled and rightly-guided successors, holding on to them with your molar teeth. Beware of newly-introduced matters, for every innovation (bid’ah) is an error.”
[Abu Dawud & Al-Tirmidhi, who says it is an authentic hadith]
Based on above hadith, what it has to do with this post?look at the bold word.’listen’ an ‘obey’ even if a slave is made ruler above you.My thought is,regardless who are you listening too,take every words seriously eventhough it may or may not beneficial,you can ignore those unbeneficial words after u analyse it.Don’t take words too easily,as Qur’an & Hadith effectively disseminate by words ,but don’t take it too exremely if the words seems to be words that can make you astray from Allah s.w.t.He Knows Best.amiin.
p/s:i noticed my post seems to be inconsistent with the post title,i’ll try to make sure i’ll write more clearly in the next post.saya semakin mengarut hari demi hari.=(
friendster's blog post : excitement (4th july 2008)
I’m using formality in my writing so it isn’t real as what my thought is. People say those who really struggle to score in exams are exam oriented. Well,it is true for some of them. But do i mention some of them? ,what about the others? .Obviously ,the others aren’t .So, what makes them so eager to score? I would say an excitement.=)
Excitement is a feeling which i take as a deep motivation.It is when u feel u have done something great for you(not for others),some people find the excitement when they hang-out with their friends,excitement when they doing something so favourable,excitement when they were watching Euro ‘08(at s15 when italy won!!=p) or even excitement when they do ‘ibdh’.For sure the last one is the biggest excitement after all. This feeling-excitement could be desireable or undesireable.could lead to something good or something bad .When there is no excitement in doing something, it is like stars n moon never exist at night .For me(as this blog is for me),i take my level of excitement doing something as my motivation driver. apa yang aku mengarut nie?. well, when i play football, it isn’t just e goal that u are looking for at e end of e day, but how u have performed the whole day ,I value the excitement from e overall game ,how many times I’ve stopped e attacker,how many times i’ve assist my teammates and surely the biggest excitement i felt is when I’ve scored e goal by myself. Believe it or not, when I’ve scored ,my feeling isn’t much different when i’ve scored in my exams(except sem 3 08). It was a great feeling, rsa nk sujud syukur pn ada(it was over-done if i really did that msa main bola).So, when i woke up every morning i look 4 excitement that i can achieve today and snap!!!, I got so motivated the whole day. Lately during this holiday, football will be the solution most of e day, some of the days excitement comes from different activities. Yesterday i thought my excitement would come from e result but it wasn’t after all. However, failed to grab e excitement could be another motivation to reach another excitement. So don’t worry of failing in achieving ur excitement, just don’t let u fall down, And manipulate whatever pre or proceeds from those excitement to achieve what we supposed to achieve.
Norman Vincent Peale in his book ‘The Positive Principle Today’, stated one of its twelve specific ways to keep positive principle going is by holding the thought that nothing can get you down. insyAllah.
p/s: be positive at e end of e day.=)
Excitement is a feeling which i take as a deep motivation.It is when u feel u have done something great for you(not for others),some people find the excitement when they hang-out with their friends,excitement when they doing something so favourable,excitement when they were watching Euro ‘08(at s15 when italy won!!=p) or even excitement when they do ‘ibdh’.For sure the last one is the biggest excitement after all. This feeling-excitement could be desireable or undesireable.could lead to something good or something bad .When there is no excitement in doing something, it is like stars n moon never exist at night .For me(as this blog is for me),i take my level of excitement doing something as my motivation driver. apa yang aku mengarut nie?. well, when i play football, it isn’t just e goal that u are looking for at e end of e day, but how u have performed the whole day ,I value the excitement from e overall game ,how many times I’ve stopped e attacker,how many times i’ve assist my teammates and surely the biggest excitement i felt is when I’ve scored e goal by myself. Believe it or not, when I’ve scored ,my feeling isn’t much different when i’ve scored in my exams(except sem 3 08). It was a great feeling, rsa nk sujud syukur pn ada(it was over-done if i really did that msa main bola).So, when i woke up every morning i look 4 excitement that i can achieve today and snap!!!, I got so motivated the whole day. Lately during this holiday, football will be the solution most of e day, some of the days excitement comes from different activities. Yesterday i thought my excitement would come from e result but it wasn’t after all. However, failed to grab e excitement could be another motivation to reach another excitement. So don’t worry of failing in achieving ur excitement, just don’t let u fall down, And manipulate whatever pre or proceeds from those excitement to achieve what we supposed to achieve.
Norman Vincent Peale in his book ‘The Positive Principle Today’, stated one of its twelve specific ways to keep positive principle going is by holding the thought that nothing can get you down. insyAllah.
p/s: be positive at e end of e day.=)
friendster's blog post : change vs comfort zone (23 june2008)
For the 1st time i’m writing this..huhu..it is just not me but i’m to bored and suddenly have a little thought of writing the blog.At e moment i’m sitting on e comfort blue chair,not at my home,in cyber cafe near section3 maju bistro.This morning i watched my team Italy fought lousily against spain,with heavy eyes watching a stupid game,i really wasted my sleeping time,bagus lagi kalau tahajud.Well it seems, italy couldn’t play the way they used to before euro,nothing to grieve about because it’s football.sometimes u win sometimes u lose.ntahlar,i’m not sure what i goin to write but here it goes.
Yesterday(sunday 22/06/08),i’ve entered futsal comp with my spaniard(our jersey is spain’s) team(hehe), my teammate dak2 seksyen 3 (shazwan,shafiq,syaznee,mus,kembar, and our manager fathi) and guess what my role is? for sure goalkeeper.Actually i was quite comfort being futsal goalkeeper compared to normal football goalkeeper(pretty bad).So my role was..heh..as i’ve been told by them,’terbang je sana sini’.I did actually ‘terbang sana sini’ but when there wasn’t a ball directly going to the goal…poyo je time tu .Bout the game,My team played quite well, we were on top of our group (consist of four teams),we won the first game by 4-0,second one was a slight one 2-1 and draw against the runner-up in the group 2-2.We make it to 2nd round and it’s the last stage for us in comp.It was a regrettable goal which i let the ball went into the goal when i could save it,i take all the blame even though they said it wasn’t my fault at all.the end,It was a great experience even though we don’t make it to the final.end of story.E comp make me thought of german’s famous philosopher words,NIetzshe ‘Whatever that don’t kill me makes me feel stronger’.E comp is just a game,lose doesnt mean it’s e end of e day,it was a starting point for my team to play a better football.For me, it means we must strive harder to achieve something…Being in the comfort zone without progress is same as u’re already dead.Life indicate progress , growth ,improvement , developement or whatever it means,it indicate 1 thing to bring a person ,people , human to better or higher level as concept of progress mentioned in Surah an-noor,verse 17 "And Allah has made you grow out of the earth as a growth".
By the way,i’m using a simple example of my daily life activities to explain what it means by growth or improvement,because many of us just don’t understand the concept,they are living the same way as they were 10 years ago.Maybe it was a hard move to change due to undesirable causes,but still changes to better thing need to be made.Stop talking and act.Thomas A. Edison once said,‘people judged u by what u do ,not what you said.So if you keep saying u can on this an that,u’re actually a definite loser.be true to urself and change!.end of my words,
P/S:sorry for any improper flow of writing and my grammatical errors.give comments yar.=)
Yesterday(sunday 22/06/08),i’ve entered futsal comp with my spaniard(our jersey is spain’s) team(hehe), my teammate dak2 seksyen 3 (shazwan,shafiq,syaznee,mus,kembar, and our manager fathi) and guess what my role is? for sure goalkeeper.Actually i was quite comfort being futsal goalkeeper compared to normal football goalkeeper(pretty bad).So my role was..heh..as i’ve been told by them,’terbang je sana sini’.I did actually ‘terbang sana sini’ but when there wasn’t a ball directly going to the goal…poyo je time tu .Bout the game,My team played quite well, we were on top of our group (consist of four teams),we won the first game by 4-0,second one was a slight one 2-1 and draw against the runner-up in the group 2-2.We make it to 2nd round and it’s the last stage for us in comp.It was a regrettable goal which i let the ball went into the goal when i could save it,i take all the blame even though they said it wasn’t my fault at all.the end,It was a great experience even though we don’t make it to the final.end of story.E comp make me thought of german’s famous philosopher words,NIetzshe ‘Whatever that don’t kill me makes me feel stronger’.E comp is just a game,lose doesnt mean it’s e end of e day,it was a starting point for my team to play a better football.For me, it means we must strive harder to achieve something…Being in the comfort zone without progress is same as u’re already dead.Life indicate progress , growth ,improvement , developement or whatever it means,it indicate 1 thing to bring a person ,people , human to better or higher level as concept of progress mentioned in Surah an-noor,verse 17 "And Allah has made you grow out of the earth as a growth".
By the way,i’m using a simple example of my daily life activities to explain what it means by growth or improvement,because many of us just don’t understand the concept,they are living the same way as they were 10 years ago.Maybe it was a hard move to change due to undesirable causes,but still changes to better thing need to be made.Stop talking and act.Thomas A. Edison once said,‘people judged u by what u do ,not what you said.So if you keep saying u can on this an that,u’re actually a definite loser.be true to urself and change!.end of my words,
P/S:sorry for any improper flow of writing and my grammatical errors.give comments yar.=)
friendster's blog post : undesirable changes (23 june2008)
Life is full of choices,and those choices are to be chose wisely to ensure a desirable result.Somehow not all the choices can be made easily,sometimes unknown forces make u choose something that u hated the most.e end?undesirable changes.Ar-Ra’d : 11 Verily never will Allah change the condition of a people until they change it themselves (with their own souls).
Based on e verse above,regardless u want it or not,changes still have to be made.and those changes aren’t changes that will lead to destruction,but changes to improvement.Even though i said sometime changes couldn’t be made due to unknown forces,do not trust my words 100 percent.We put our hopes to change not on anyone(ur gf ,ur bf,me) nor anything else(ur materials thing),but on Allah s.w.t solely. Well,i try to get straight to the point,if e forces that hold us back from making a wise decision exist,how can we choose a wise decision ?.It depends. Example in fiqh through the concept of Al-Aqd there are 2 performer the buyer and seller and generally their decision hold by 2 principles of Aq’d ; principle of freedom and principle of consent.When the principle of consent or freedom is being violated due to enforcement, e result could be consider valid or invalid.But majority consider it as invalid due to principles violation.and later a correction or option will exist.So,in life if bad choices that u have made was without ur intention, try to change those as much as u can if it’s not to late,because others can’t control u,they just can advice u,guide u and sometimes destruct u.just be urself at e end of e day and change for good.InsyaAllah.=)
.why on earth you write a blog again?.
i used to have a blog.
in friendster.intended to fill my boring days at home.
and now.
im starting to write again.
as i feel damn bored at home.
why people write blog?
seeking attention?voicing out their inner thoughts?trying to be cool?trying to show their intellectuality?trying to express their personality? & etc.
whatever the reason is, now i'm writing it jugak.
lame.
iyer.thats right.
tapi buhsan.
terima kasih.
=)
i have an old blog.
and wanted to start this blog with re-posting those back here.
english : 6/10
bahasa : 5.85/10
cina : 1/10(bahasa mencarut dan i love you)
arab : 10/10 (doakan).
language i'm using are as i wrote above.
bad at language, lame thoughts and uncivilized idea.
so welcome to my blog.
its almost the year end.2009.
baru nak buat blog.
late followers.
haha.
salam.=)
in friendster.intended to fill my boring days at home.
and now.
im starting to write again.
as i feel damn bored at home.
why people write blog?
seeking attention?voicing out their inner thoughts?trying to be cool?trying to show their intellectuality?trying to express their personality? & etc.
whatever the reason is, now i'm writing it jugak.
lame.
iyer.thats right.
tapi buhsan.
terima kasih.
=)
i have an old blog.
and wanted to start this blog with re-posting those back here.
english : 6/10
bahasa : 5.85/10
cina : 1/10(bahasa mencarut dan i love you)
arab : 10/10 (doakan).
language i'm using are as i wrote above.
bad at language, lame thoughts and uncivilized idea.
so welcome to my blog.
its almost the year end.2009.
baru nak buat blog.
late followers.
haha.
salam.=)
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