you are just ordinary.
when people thought you are much different.
when you meet great people.
you feel great,even you yet to be one.
YTAR camps was awesome.
it burst my spirit high enough.
kak zaleha,e first batch of tunku scholars just got the king's scholarship(agong's scholarship) to continue master at the Ivy's league university at UK.
kak adibah,will be doing Phd at the year of 23?.damn young.she's too good and able to skipped her master.
elson are already master's student at upm at the age of 23.
and many2 great stories.
it really make me feel that.
i can be like them.
one day.
soon the dreams will come true.
just stay on the right path.
be calm.
amin.
=)
Monday, November 23, 2009
Thursday, November 19, 2009
.reading is exciting.
it's exciting to read his books.
baru satu je.outliers.beli before raya.
yesterday just bought the latest one.what the dog saw.
beli lagi.last week pn beli jugak.x baca lagi.
tapi malcolm's writing are fascinating and best giler.
serious.
the writer name : malcolm gladwell
at first,agak boring baca outliers.but as the chapters goes.
exciting.a great finding.deep beneath what typical writer would see.
try to check some of his stuff : http://www.gladwell.com
if dah habis baca 'apa yang anjing sudah lihat'.
baru beli tipping point and blink.
insyaAllah.
=)
baru satu je.outliers.beli before raya.
yesterday just bought the latest one.what the dog saw.
beli lagi.last week pn beli jugak.x baca lagi.
tapi malcolm's writing are fascinating and best giler.
serious.
the writer name : malcolm gladwell
at first,agak boring baca outliers.but as the chapters goes.
exciting.a great finding.deep beneath what typical writer would see.
try to check some of his stuff : http://www.gladwell.com
if dah habis baca 'apa yang anjing sudah lihat'.
baru beli tipping point and blink.
insyaAllah.
=)
.welcoming you to 'wasting-your-time' blog.
salam.
this guy is a friend of yours.
who are trying to revive his old blog.
again?.hehe.
come and read.
critize it at maximum pace.
thank you.
datang lagi.
=)
this guy is a friend of yours.
who are trying to revive his old blog.
again?.hehe.
come and read.
critize it at maximum pace.
thank you.
datang lagi.
=)
friendster's blog post : girl best friend? (13th november 2008)
Often i felt i failed to understand people or it just me who over-do to understand them.the question is,do we need to understand people???
‘HabluminAllah wa Hablumminannas’
Islam taught us how significant to build relationship not with Allah solely,but also relationship with human.Well,e concept of Fardhu Kifayah explained everything.But what kind of relationship should we built on?hye n bye friends?soulmate friends?sehidup semati friends?or get along friends?my answer,whatever it goes…
Some are suit to be one of many kinds(relationship) or sometime few kinds at once.Sekarang aku dah mengarut.I guess what i want to write is about, Girl Best Friend .
I got one so called best friend,well she’s more like the one who really accept me the way i am ~annoying,big teaser,childish,emo n bla2(i guess u like me to confessd this.haha).We spent time studying together,studying for real.fyi,she’s my tutor for cm and im her study partner for ca.=).
I’ve tried to keep ourself to be seen by others but unfortunately we failed.so i guess we just be ourself.Why should i be afraid if we’re nothing more than besties?so we go on studying at public place.=p.But lately i guess others perceived it differently,they thought us as couple.S.E.N.G.A.L.At first i really don’t take it seriously but when it goes to bad(everyone teasing me here & there),hey!i need to voice out something.Explaining here n there that we are nothing more than besties gave nothing much different as they said a denial is a approval of public thought.so i guess biarlar apa orang nak cakap,it’s theirs(mouth) and words meant nothing for me because i know the truth.
One day, i called a good friend of mine bout cm but end up discussing something else,bout my bestie. She said it was to obvious that we practically being as a couple.S.E.N.G.A.L.honest!!!we met only for study purposes,except one day out with her(not a date).calls & sms?erm.of course she’s my bestie.she knows me well.and we know we aren’t meant more than that.sweet & flirty words tu meant nothing lor,it just words.So she said if we don’t want public to perceived as couple,we shouldnt act like one.I take her words at first,but iguess my way is better.be urself.as long as she’s my best friend and nothing more.good enough for me.=p~
person i like most hate me most.=)
So this is my words for those who have odd lame narrow thoughts of relationship,don’t define couple when they are together, lovers n bla3.In islam just have two words for boys/girls relationship , husband & wife or friends.~end
I’m feeling i’m so talking rubbish at e moment.=)
‘HabluminAllah wa Hablumminannas’
Islam taught us how significant to build relationship not with Allah solely,but also relationship with human.Well,e concept of Fardhu Kifayah explained everything.But what kind of relationship should we built on?hye n bye friends?soulmate friends?sehidup semati friends?or get along friends?my answer,whatever it goes…
Some are suit to be one of many kinds(relationship) or sometime few kinds at once.Sekarang aku dah mengarut.I guess what i want to write is about, Girl Best Friend .
I got one so called best friend,well she’s more like the one who really accept me the way i am ~annoying,big teaser,childish,emo n bla2(i guess u like me to confessd this.haha).We spent time studying together,studying for real.fyi,she’s my tutor for cm and im her study partner for ca.=).
I’ve tried to keep ourself to be seen by others but unfortunately we failed.so i guess we just be ourself.Why should i be afraid if we’re nothing more than besties?so we go on studying at public place.=p.But lately i guess others perceived it differently,they thought us as couple.S.E.N.G.A.L.At first i really don’t take it seriously but when it goes to bad(everyone teasing me here & there),hey!i need to voice out something.Explaining here n there that we are nothing more than besties gave nothing much different as they said a denial is a approval of public thought.so i guess biarlar apa orang nak cakap,it’s theirs(mouth) and words meant nothing for me because i know the truth.
One day, i called a good friend of mine bout cm but end up discussing something else,bout my bestie. She said it was to obvious that we practically being as a couple.S.E.N.G.A.L.honest!!!we met only for study purposes,except one day out with her(not a date).calls & sms?erm.of course she’s my bestie.she knows me well.and we know we aren’t meant more than that.sweet & flirty words tu meant nothing lor,it just words.So she said if we don’t want public to perceived as couple,we shouldnt act like one.I take her words at first,but iguess my way is better.be urself.as long as she’s my best friend and nothing more.good enough for me.=p~
person i like most hate me most.=)
So this is my words for those who have odd lame narrow thoughts of relationship,don’t define couple when they are together, lovers n bla3.In islam just have two words for boys/girls relationship , husband & wife or friends.~end
I’m feeling i’m so talking rubbish at e moment.=)
friendster's blog post : words from others?.how would you react & response ?(15th nov 2008)
Particularly West acknowledged the term awfulizing (i’ve found it in my reading ) which means an idea that any relaxation in standards or vigilance is the first step toward failure,degradation and the collapse of civilization.I was attracted to the term~awfulizing but somehow not sure what i’ll be writing on.But perhaps, i’ll try to reflect the term in Islamic view.
Since you were born , a set of manifestation of guideline how ur future life should be would mainly set up or bold by ur parents. After sometime, if your behaviours and actions reflecting the guidelines, your parents would say ‘Thank God,we have followed the right way’.But if the result of your behaviours and actions seems to be far from what they have expected, your parents would be in situation so called dissapointment.Hey,don’t dissapoint your parents too often.=)
What does matter is how we act when we’ve been told by our parents what to do. Vary in ages ,response from us also differ.I’ve noticed that my writing seems to be too formal like this post meant for Parenting CCAC subjects,so let me make it general.People,when refuse after were told what to do by others will resulted in two responses ,
1st-overt -straightly im not going to do it or 2nd-passive+aggressive- i forgot.
these two responses surely lead to common frustration for those who gave the order/instruction.But why too often we refuse too hear others advice,opinion,thoughts,orders & instruction by directly not too follow them without at first place comparing our own with them.Stubborn?Ego?Status?Riya’?.whatever the answers is,we still are not easily to perceived and instructed to other words.Some might felt he himself already posses enough ability to make his own decision/opinion without expecting words form others, or even if he still want to listen others words , he always failed to received a helpful thoughts to be worked on.Or,even other words are obviously better than yours, there’s a sceptical minded that won’t let you accept the words as a total.and there are other explanation for this circumstances depending what variables you used on but mostly it would be your behaviour itself.
So come the conclusion, what merely is inside your mind when people start talking ?, what reactions or responses you would give? reactions may vary between different people as when you with your lecturer, you might taking each word came from his/her mouth seriously(especially bila nak xm) , but with your friends you might considering listening or not to because merely they will talk bout the same thing over and over again and it goes with different people.another question, do you give the right reactions or responses to the words?.perhaps you did but MOSTLY you aren’t.
It was narrated on the authority of Abu Najih al-Irbad bin Sariyah, radiyallahu ‘anhu, who said:
The Messenger of Allah, sallallahu ‘alayhi wasallam, delivered an admonition that made our hearts fearful and our eyes tearful. We said, “O Messenger of Allah, it is as if this were a farewell sermon, so advise us.” He said, “I enjoin you to have Taqwa of Allah and that you listen and obey, even if a slave is made a ruler over you. He among you who lives long enough will see many differences. So for you is to observe my Sunnah and the Sunnah of the rightly-principled and rightly-guided successors, holding on to them with your molar teeth. Beware of newly-introduced matters, for every innovation (bid’ah) is an error.”
[Abu Dawud & Al-Tirmidhi, who says it is an authentic hadith]
Based on above hadith, what it has to do with this post?look at the bold word.’listen’ an ‘obey’ even if a slave is made ruler above you.My thought is,regardless who are you listening too,take every words seriously eventhough it may or may not beneficial,you can ignore those unbeneficial words after u analyse it.Don’t take words too easily,as Qur’an & Hadith effectively disseminate by words ,but don’t take it too exremely if the words seems to be words that can make you astray from Allah s.w.t.He Knows Best.amiin.
p/s:i noticed my post seems to be inconsistent with the post title,i’ll try to make sure i’ll write more clearly in the next post.saya semakin mengarut hari demi hari.=(
Since you were born , a set of manifestation of guideline how ur future life should be would mainly set up or bold by ur parents. After sometime, if your behaviours and actions reflecting the guidelines, your parents would say ‘Thank God,we have followed the right way’.But if the result of your behaviours and actions seems to be far from what they have expected, your parents would be in situation so called dissapointment.Hey,don’t dissapoint your parents too often.=)
What does matter is how we act when we’ve been told by our parents what to do. Vary in ages ,response from us also differ.I’ve noticed that my writing seems to be too formal like this post meant for Parenting CCAC subjects,so let me make it general.People,when refuse after were told what to do by others will resulted in two responses ,
1st-overt -straightly im not going to do it or 2nd-passive+aggressive- i forgot.
these two responses surely lead to common frustration for those who gave the order/instruction.But why too often we refuse too hear others advice,opinion,thoughts,orders & instruction by directly not too follow them without at first place comparing our own with them.Stubborn?Ego?Status?Riya’?.whatever the answers is,we still are not easily to perceived and instructed to other words.Some might felt he himself already posses enough ability to make his own decision/opinion without expecting words form others, or even if he still want to listen others words , he always failed to received a helpful thoughts to be worked on.Or,even other words are obviously better than yours, there’s a sceptical minded that won’t let you accept the words as a total.and there are other explanation for this circumstances depending what variables you used on but mostly it would be your behaviour itself.
So come the conclusion, what merely is inside your mind when people start talking ?, what reactions or responses you would give? reactions may vary between different people as when you with your lecturer, you might taking each word came from his/her mouth seriously(especially bila nak xm) , but with your friends you might considering listening or not to because merely they will talk bout the same thing over and over again and it goes with different people.another question, do you give the right reactions or responses to the words?.perhaps you did but MOSTLY you aren’t.
It was narrated on the authority of Abu Najih al-Irbad bin Sariyah, radiyallahu ‘anhu, who said:
The Messenger of Allah, sallallahu ‘alayhi wasallam, delivered an admonition that made our hearts fearful and our eyes tearful. We said, “O Messenger of Allah, it is as if this were a farewell sermon, so advise us.” He said, “I enjoin you to have Taqwa of Allah and that you listen and obey, even if a slave is made a ruler over you. He among you who lives long enough will see many differences. So for you is to observe my Sunnah and the Sunnah of the rightly-principled and rightly-guided successors, holding on to them with your molar teeth. Beware of newly-introduced matters, for every innovation (bid’ah) is an error.”
[Abu Dawud & Al-Tirmidhi, who says it is an authentic hadith]
Based on above hadith, what it has to do with this post?look at the bold word.’listen’ an ‘obey’ even if a slave is made ruler above you.My thought is,regardless who are you listening too,take every words seriously eventhough it may or may not beneficial,you can ignore those unbeneficial words after u analyse it.Don’t take words too easily,as Qur’an & Hadith effectively disseminate by words ,but don’t take it too exremely if the words seems to be words that can make you astray from Allah s.w.t.He Knows Best.amiin.
p/s:i noticed my post seems to be inconsistent with the post title,i’ll try to make sure i’ll write more clearly in the next post.saya semakin mengarut hari demi hari.=(
friendster's blog post : excitement (4th july 2008)
I’m using formality in my writing so it isn’t real as what my thought is. People say those who really struggle to score in exams are exam oriented. Well,it is true for some of them. But do i mention some of them? ,what about the others? .Obviously ,the others aren’t .So, what makes them so eager to score? I would say an excitement.=)
Excitement is a feeling which i take as a deep motivation.It is when u feel u have done something great for you(not for others),some people find the excitement when they hang-out with their friends,excitement when they doing something so favourable,excitement when they were watching Euro ‘08(at s15 when italy won!!=p) or even excitement when they do ‘ibdh’.For sure the last one is the biggest excitement after all. This feeling-excitement could be desireable or undesireable.could lead to something good or something bad .When there is no excitement in doing something, it is like stars n moon never exist at night .For me(as this blog is for me),i take my level of excitement doing something as my motivation driver. apa yang aku mengarut nie?. well, when i play football, it isn’t just e goal that u are looking for at e end of e day, but how u have performed the whole day ,I value the excitement from e overall game ,how many times I’ve stopped e attacker,how many times i’ve assist my teammates and surely the biggest excitement i felt is when I’ve scored e goal by myself. Believe it or not, when I’ve scored ,my feeling isn’t much different when i’ve scored in my exams(except sem 3 08). It was a great feeling, rsa nk sujud syukur pn ada(it was over-done if i really did that msa main bola).So, when i woke up every morning i look 4 excitement that i can achieve today and snap!!!, I got so motivated the whole day. Lately during this holiday, football will be the solution most of e day, some of the days excitement comes from different activities. Yesterday i thought my excitement would come from e result but it wasn’t after all. However, failed to grab e excitement could be another motivation to reach another excitement. So don’t worry of failing in achieving ur excitement, just don’t let u fall down, And manipulate whatever pre or proceeds from those excitement to achieve what we supposed to achieve.
Norman Vincent Peale in his book ‘The Positive Principle Today’, stated one of its twelve specific ways to keep positive principle going is by holding the thought that nothing can get you down. insyAllah.
p/s: be positive at e end of e day.=)
Excitement is a feeling which i take as a deep motivation.It is when u feel u have done something great for you(not for others),some people find the excitement when they hang-out with their friends,excitement when they doing something so favourable,excitement when they were watching Euro ‘08(at s15 when italy won!!=p) or even excitement when they do ‘ibdh’.For sure the last one is the biggest excitement after all. This feeling-excitement could be desireable or undesireable.could lead to something good or something bad .When there is no excitement in doing something, it is like stars n moon never exist at night .For me(as this blog is for me),i take my level of excitement doing something as my motivation driver. apa yang aku mengarut nie?. well, when i play football, it isn’t just e goal that u are looking for at e end of e day, but how u have performed the whole day ,I value the excitement from e overall game ,how many times I’ve stopped e attacker,how many times i’ve assist my teammates and surely the biggest excitement i felt is when I’ve scored e goal by myself. Believe it or not, when I’ve scored ,my feeling isn’t much different when i’ve scored in my exams(except sem 3 08). It was a great feeling, rsa nk sujud syukur pn ada(it was over-done if i really did that msa main bola).So, when i woke up every morning i look 4 excitement that i can achieve today and snap!!!, I got so motivated the whole day. Lately during this holiday, football will be the solution most of e day, some of the days excitement comes from different activities. Yesterday i thought my excitement would come from e result but it wasn’t after all. However, failed to grab e excitement could be another motivation to reach another excitement. So don’t worry of failing in achieving ur excitement, just don’t let u fall down, And manipulate whatever pre or proceeds from those excitement to achieve what we supposed to achieve.
Norman Vincent Peale in his book ‘The Positive Principle Today’, stated one of its twelve specific ways to keep positive principle going is by holding the thought that nothing can get you down. insyAllah.
p/s: be positive at e end of e day.=)
friendster's blog post : change vs comfort zone (23 june2008)
For the 1st time i’m writing this..huhu..it is just not me but i’m to bored and suddenly have a little thought of writing the blog.At e moment i’m sitting on e comfort blue chair,not at my home,in cyber cafe near section3 maju bistro.This morning i watched my team Italy fought lousily against spain,with heavy eyes watching a stupid game,i really wasted my sleeping time,bagus lagi kalau tahajud.Well it seems, italy couldn’t play the way they used to before euro,nothing to grieve about because it’s football.sometimes u win sometimes u lose.ntahlar,i’m not sure what i goin to write but here it goes.
Yesterday(sunday 22/06/08),i’ve entered futsal comp with my spaniard(our jersey is spain’s) team(hehe), my teammate dak2 seksyen 3 (shazwan,shafiq,syaznee,mus,kembar, and our manager fathi) and guess what my role is? for sure goalkeeper.Actually i was quite comfort being futsal goalkeeper compared to normal football goalkeeper(pretty bad).So my role was..heh..as i’ve been told by them,’terbang je sana sini’.I did actually ‘terbang sana sini’ but when there wasn’t a ball directly going to the goal…poyo je time tu .Bout the game,My team played quite well, we were on top of our group (consist of four teams),we won the first game by 4-0,second one was a slight one 2-1 and draw against the runner-up in the group 2-2.We make it to 2nd round and it’s the last stage for us in comp.It was a regrettable goal which i let the ball went into the goal when i could save it,i take all the blame even though they said it wasn’t my fault at all.the end,It was a great experience even though we don’t make it to the final.end of story.E comp make me thought of german’s famous philosopher words,NIetzshe ‘Whatever that don’t kill me makes me feel stronger’.E comp is just a game,lose doesnt mean it’s e end of e day,it was a starting point for my team to play a better football.For me, it means we must strive harder to achieve something…Being in the comfort zone without progress is same as u’re already dead.Life indicate progress , growth ,improvement , developement or whatever it means,it indicate 1 thing to bring a person ,people , human to better or higher level as concept of progress mentioned in Surah an-noor,verse 17 "And Allah has made you grow out of the earth as a growth".
By the way,i’m using a simple example of my daily life activities to explain what it means by growth or improvement,because many of us just don’t understand the concept,they are living the same way as they were 10 years ago.Maybe it was a hard move to change due to undesirable causes,but still changes to better thing need to be made.Stop talking and act.Thomas A. Edison once said,‘people judged u by what u do ,not what you said.So if you keep saying u can on this an that,u’re actually a definite loser.be true to urself and change!.end of my words,
P/S:sorry for any improper flow of writing and my grammatical errors.give comments yar.=)
Yesterday(sunday 22/06/08),i’ve entered futsal comp with my spaniard(our jersey is spain’s) team(hehe), my teammate dak2 seksyen 3 (shazwan,shafiq,syaznee,mus,kembar, and our manager fathi) and guess what my role is? for sure goalkeeper.Actually i was quite comfort being futsal goalkeeper compared to normal football goalkeeper(pretty bad).So my role was..heh..as i’ve been told by them,’terbang je sana sini’.I did actually ‘terbang sana sini’ but when there wasn’t a ball directly going to the goal…poyo je time tu .Bout the game,My team played quite well, we were on top of our group (consist of four teams),we won the first game by 4-0,second one was a slight one 2-1 and draw against the runner-up in the group 2-2.We make it to 2nd round and it’s the last stage for us in comp.It was a regrettable goal which i let the ball went into the goal when i could save it,i take all the blame even though they said it wasn’t my fault at all.the end,It was a great experience even though we don’t make it to the final.end of story.E comp make me thought of german’s famous philosopher words,NIetzshe ‘Whatever that don’t kill me makes me feel stronger’.E comp is just a game,lose doesnt mean it’s e end of e day,it was a starting point for my team to play a better football.For me, it means we must strive harder to achieve something…Being in the comfort zone without progress is same as u’re already dead.Life indicate progress , growth ,improvement , developement or whatever it means,it indicate 1 thing to bring a person ,people , human to better or higher level as concept of progress mentioned in Surah an-noor,verse 17 "And Allah has made you grow out of the earth as a growth".
By the way,i’m using a simple example of my daily life activities to explain what it means by growth or improvement,because many of us just don’t understand the concept,they are living the same way as they were 10 years ago.Maybe it was a hard move to change due to undesirable causes,but still changes to better thing need to be made.Stop talking and act.Thomas A. Edison once said,‘people judged u by what u do ,not what you said.So if you keep saying u can on this an that,u’re actually a definite loser.be true to urself and change!.end of my words,
P/S:sorry for any improper flow of writing and my grammatical errors.give comments yar.=)
friendster's blog post : undesirable changes (23 june2008)
Life is full of choices,and those choices are to be chose wisely to ensure a desirable result.Somehow not all the choices can be made easily,sometimes unknown forces make u choose something that u hated the most.e end?undesirable changes.Ar-Ra’d : 11 Verily never will Allah change the condition of a people until they change it themselves (with their own souls).
Based on e verse above,regardless u want it or not,changes still have to be made.and those changes aren’t changes that will lead to destruction,but changes to improvement.Even though i said sometime changes couldn’t be made due to unknown forces,do not trust my words 100 percent.We put our hopes to change not on anyone(ur gf ,ur bf,me) nor anything else(ur materials thing),but on Allah s.w.t solely. Well,i try to get straight to the point,if e forces that hold us back from making a wise decision exist,how can we choose a wise decision ?.It depends. Example in fiqh through the concept of Al-Aqd there are 2 performer the buyer and seller and generally their decision hold by 2 principles of Aq’d ; principle of freedom and principle of consent.When the principle of consent or freedom is being violated due to enforcement, e result could be consider valid or invalid.But majority consider it as invalid due to principles violation.and later a correction or option will exist.So,in life if bad choices that u have made was without ur intention, try to change those as much as u can if it’s not to late,because others can’t control u,they just can advice u,guide u and sometimes destruct u.just be urself at e end of e day and change for good.InsyaAllah.=)
.why on earth you write a blog again?.
i used to have a blog.
in friendster.intended to fill my boring days at home.
and now.
im starting to write again.
as i feel damn bored at home.
why people write blog?
seeking attention?voicing out their inner thoughts?trying to be cool?trying to show their intellectuality?trying to express their personality? & etc.
whatever the reason is, now i'm writing it jugak.
lame.
iyer.thats right.
tapi buhsan.
terima kasih.
=)
i have an old blog.
and wanted to start this blog with re-posting those back here.
english : 6/10
bahasa : 5.85/10
cina : 1/10(bahasa mencarut dan i love you)
arab : 10/10 (doakan).
language i'm using are as i wrote above.
bad at language, lame thoughts and uncivilized idea.
so welcome to my blog.
its almost the year end.2009.
baru nak buat blog.
late followers.
haha.
salam.=)
in friendster.intended to fill my boring days at home.
and now.
im starting to write again.
as i feel damn bored at home.
why people write blog?
seeking attention?voicing out their inner thoughts?trying to be cool?trying to show their intellectuality?trying to express their personality? & etc.
whatever the reason is, now i'm writing it jugak.
lame.
iyer.thats right.
tapi buhsan.
terima kasih.
=)
i have an old blog.
and wanted to start this blog with re-posting those back here.
english : 6/10
bahasa : 5.85/10
cina : 1/10(bahasa mencarut dan i love you)
arab : 10/10 (doakan).
language i'm using are as i wrote above.
bad at language, lame thoughts and uncivilized idea.
so welcome to my blog.
its almost the year end.2009.
baru nak buat blog.
late followers.
haha.
salam.=)
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